AdultFriendFinder in general:

When I am writing this lines AdultFriendFinder has 23,428,165 members of which 114,347 are online. There is no other dating site, adult dating or mainstream dating, that even come close to this number. AdultFriendFinder is the heavy weight champion of the adult dating world. There is simply no end to the amount of people on this site. Unless you live in the south part of Zimbabwe you are bound to find many good looking women in your area.

Of course when you have such a large number of women you can help men find exactly what they want. So you can narrow your search to a very specific type, the more you pay the greater your search options become. These guys have it all and in large numbers, if you are looking for a dark hair blue eyes Latina that lives in a 5 miles radius from down town Boston, you got it. When you log to AdultFriendFinder there is no question of IF you find a perfect match.
The site will also send you your daily matches in emails and it is important to keep an eye on that since this are women that are looking for someone like you. My suggestion is also to keep an eye on the newest members since they are the fresh fish and the easiest to catch. Usually I would say that it is important to check the profiles that have no photo; here I am not sure, since there is so many that have a photo which makes it unnecessary. A word of warning though, there are some scammers on this site that try to get personal information from people. Luckily It is very easy to avoid that. If a personal photo looks too good to be true (or like a porn star) it usually is. Also simply do not give personal details (bank account exact address etc.) for no reason.
The only problem with this site is that it is too damn big, its advantage is also its disadvantage. There are a lot of "dead profiles" of women (and men) that stopped using the system a long time ago but still show in the search. Unlike the former sites AdultFriendFinder has a large portion of his database that is made by non sex seeker women. The kind of women that want the 3 dates before sex, and are looking for relationship – if that is fine by you than cool, for me it is horrible.
Another problem is the competition on this site. It is harder to successfully hit on women since there are so many other men doing the same. All this is due to the size of the site and its database. It took me longer to find a date and sex there, but any thing I ever wanted I found there.

So what do you get when you pay?

The first thing you see when you pay is the amount of extra options you have for searching profiles. There is also a difference, between gold and silver membership, options which when you add to the fact that gold members get more exposure makes it worth the cost.



I think it goes without saying that you receive all the communication channels you need – emails, chats, video chats, etc. there are chat rooms, blogs and forums, all you will ever need is there. So finding the way to hit on women is not a hard thing. There is also an option called hotlist which is like the "black book" of fling and it helps you to track all the women you like and keep them in order.
Because the site is massive it has a lot of options inside for you, they really want you to have access to everything. That makes the navigation a little harder than the other sites, it is also an older site so it is less "slick" in appearance than the newer ones.

From my personal experience:

It always feels to me like I am in a worldwide competition for finding a date, when I visit AdultFriendFinder. Like each women is the Holy Grail and all the Knights of the Round Table are all chasing it. But then I see the amount of grails in the exhibition room and I feel better.
Since my taste is distinct and since I am sending emails to all the women around that matches that, I happened to found two very nice women, who looked very much alike. Both were living in my town and were very nice (we corresponded via emails). I dated them both, had fun with them and had very good sex with them, it was great…. Oh they were sisters. Now hold on, hold on I did not had sex with them in the same time. It was nothing as kinky as that….unfortunately. The younger sister told her elder about the site and she joined, I just happened to be lucky enough to enjoy both sisters grace.
I know it is not a crazy sex story, but it is one I really like. I mean who doesn’t have a "sisters" fantasy? Well they weren’t twins, and it was no threesome but I guess it is as close as I will ever get.